Diversity and Inclusivity in Children’s Literature: Educating with Compassion

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Children’s books are our first steps into the adventures of literature. From the earliest of ages, children enter a world filled with authors and characters that become as dear to them as anyone in the real world. They become our children’s first teachers, friends, and companions.

Authors like Dr. Seuss, characters like The Berenstain Bears, and sleepy-time staples like Good Night, Moon help shape our children’s moral compass, compassion, and awareness in loving and entertaining ways. SuperCaptainBraveMan is so proud to be among such literary giants when you and your family choose quality children’s book content.

Diversity and inclusivity are critical aspects of children’s lives, and, in turn, Children’s books can and should reflect the world around them. While the classic tales of our childhoods still hold lessons every child should know, it is essential to ensure that all children, regardless of their abilities, race, sexual orientation, or family background, are represented in the stories they read.

Representation Matters

For children with disabilities, finding characters, they can relate to in books can be challenging. We all love a good superhero story! Where the main character fights the bad guy, saves the friend, and learns new ways to share their powers with others! It is easy to get attached to that character and find ways you’re similar to them. But how about if that superhero has a trach? Or if he’s wearing his cool AFO leg braces? What happens when a child with disabilities sees a superhero with disabilities? When children with disabilities see characters with similar experiences, it can help them feel seen, heard, and validated. We can attest to this fact every time a mother, father, or caretaker tells us that their child with a disability sees themself in SuperCaptainBraveMan.

Similarly, children from diverse racial and ethnic backgrounds may not always see themselves reflected in the books they read. By including diverse characters in children’s books, we can help all children feel seen and cherished.

Breaking Stereotypes

Children's books featuring diverse characters can also help to break down stereotypes and biases. For example, children's books that feature characters with disabilities can help to dispel myths about what it means to have a disability. Books that depict characters from different races and ethnic backgrounds can also help to break down stereotypes and promote understanding.

It is important that children's books featuring diverse characters are written and illustrated respectfully and authentically. A refreshing dive into newer children's books showcase authors and illustrators who have lived experience, are diverse, or have done extensive research to create realistic and nuanced portrayals of diverse characters.

Encouraging Empathy

Reading children's books featuring diverse characters can also encourage empathy and understanding in children. When children see characters who are different, it can help them develop a broader perspective and a greater understanding of the world around them. This can lead to greater compassion and empathy for others, encourage kids to learn about customs different from theirs, and lead with kindness.

Promoting Inclusivity

We are so lucky to live in a time where children's books represent various experiences, backgrounds, and abilities. The amount of different voices and stories Children's books provide only helps build our children's view of the ever-changing yet beautiful world we all share. Children's literature can be critical in promoting acceptance and celebrating diversity as we work towards a more inclusive society.

Winning at Losing: Being Kind to Yourself and Others After You Lose a Game

Winning at Losing

Everyone loves playing a good game! Some of the best moments in life are playing in a team in a competition. Whether a friendly game of kickball on the playground or a rainy day board game with your family, games can be a great way to develop strategic thinking, cooperation skills, and bonding time. But what happens when a game doesn’t go your way? What if you’re on the losing side of a competition?

It’s an important fact that losing can be upsetting. It’s natural to be disappointed when you lose a game, especially when you work hard to try and achieve a goal. But, it is equally important to remember that the risk of losing is a part of playing any game. Losing can also be an opportunity to learn from mistakes.

Losing can reinforce lessons that can help kids grow. Winning can feel great. We enjoy pushing for success and avoiding failure. But losing is a part of any game. It’s easy to connect failure with the opposite of winning, but that’s not true. Losing is a part of success. Without loss, the vital lessons that games provide will never be learned.

Losing a game teaches us that perfection isn’t a goal to aim for. There is always room for growth and improvement. It can also remind us that perseverance is a win in its own right. When we lose at a game, it’s so easy to give up. But, when we lose, learn from a game, and pick ourselves up to try again, we can set ourselves up for success the next time. That resilience helps create the determination and drive it takes to reach our goals.

One of the most important parts of losing a game is a lesson in kindness and empathy. When you win a game, and your opponent feels bad, you most likely meet them with kind words. Just like how you extend kindness their way, it’s important to remember that if you lose, kindness to the winner is good too. Everybody has those days. Everybody is capable of failing. We all share similarities when it comes to competition. Being kind and supportive reflects your kindness and empathy even when things don’t go your way.

Everyone loves playing a good game! Some of the best moments in life are playing in a team in a competition. Whether a friendly game of kickball on the playground or a rainy day board game with your family, games can be a great way to develop strategic thinking, cooperation skills, and bonding time. But what happens when a game doesn’t go your way? What if you’re on the losing side of a competition?

It’s an important fact that losing can be upsetting. It’s natural to be disappointed when you lose a game, especially when you work hard to try and achieve a goal. But, it is equally important to remember that the risk of losing is a part of playing any game. Losing can also be an opportunity to learn from mistakes.

Losing can reinforce lessons that can help kids grow. Winning can feel great. We enjoy pushing for success and avoiding failure. But losing is a part of any game. It’s easy to connect failure with the opposite of winning, but that’s not true. Losing is a part of success. Without loss, the vital lessons that games provide will never be learned.

Losing a game teaches us that perfection isn’t a goal to aim for. There is always room for growth and improvement. It can also remind us that perseverance is a win in its own right. When we lose at a game, it’s so easy to give up. But, when we lose, learn from a game, and pick ourselves up to try again, we can set ourselves up for success the next time. That resilience helps create the determination and drive it takes to reach our goals.

One of the most important parts of losing a game is a lesson in kindness and empathy. When you win a game, and your opponent feels bad, you most likely meet them with kind words. Just like how you extend kindness their way, it’s important to remember that if you lose, kindness to the winner is good too. Everybody has those days. Everybody is capable of failing. We all share similarities when it comes to competition. Being kind and supportive reflects your kindness and empathy even when things don’t go your way.

ANGRY! What can I do when my child gets frustrated?

Life is full of super great moments! Each adventure can bring excitement, happiness, and lots of fun. But sometimes, moments can get us a little frustrated or even angry. An angry mood can sometimes damper the joy of an adventure, and it can be hard to get rid of that feeling. So what do we do when kids feel a little frustrated? How can we recognize things that upset them? And what do we do after they're done being angry?

An important thing to remember is that everyone can get angry. It's a normal emotion that you and your kids feel sometimes. People often get frustrated when things go differently than planned, when something is a little tricky to achieve, or if they can't get something they want right away. These things often lead to angry reactions like yelling, screaming, or crying. The results often create a larger and more stressful situation.

Children require their emotions to be validated, and recognizing anger is essential in resolution. Being angry is a proper emotion kids feel is true and real to their situation. It's often hard to remember that in heightened circumstances. Something to remember, however, is that although that feeling is valid, behavior is something your kids can control. A more likely situation that creates frustration between you and your child isn't their anger; it's the behavior that follows. Being angry is okay. How you work out that anger appropriately is a workable course during outbursts.

A great start to helping your child handle their anger is checking in with your emotional response. None of us are perfect regarding flare-ups and terse situations that can spring up suddenly. An awareness helps diffuse things that tend to escalate into a problem. A child receiving the wrong side at mealtime or bringing the wrong toy on a car trip can sometimes be catastrophic. While these situations seem inconsequential to us, to a child, who doesn't have the life experience to process their emotions appropriately, these moments can cause major upset, which in turn can cause you frustration. 

Remember that not reacting to your child's behavior doesn't mean you've given in. It's important to understand that appropriate disciplining isn't in the middle of a meltdown. Employ methods that work for you and your child. An example, encourage your child to take a breath alongside you or give each other space. Problems are best resolved when tempers are settled. 

Please encourage your child to get familiar with their signs of anger. You can help diffuse a situation by noticing when an eruption can occur. Recognizing physical signals like jaw-locking and fist-clenching can help you by getting ahead of a potential crisis.

Some children tend to feel embarrassed or sorry for their emotional outbursts. A practical way to confront uncomfortable emotions is to approach them calmly and in a way that leads to a productive outcome. A helpful method following an eruption can be discussed openly with your child. Ask them why they were upset, what triggered that response, or how things could have ended differently. Remember that your child can set the tone of what they're comfortable discussing. If frustration remerges, drop the conversation, you can always return to the topic at a calmer time.

Anger happens. It's an emotion that we all share. Although it can sometimes be frustrating, listening with attentive ears, a rational mind, and an open heart can help any little superhero! The best part about the people we love is their varied emotions and ability to compromise when things get rough. 

We found these articles helpful in researching this blog post:

Responding to Anger in Children

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/passive-aggressive-diaries/201402/reponding-anger-in-children

Helping Your Child With Anger Issues

https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/children-and-young-adults/advice-for-parents/help-your-child-with-anger-issues/

Angry Kids: Dealing with Explosive Behavior

https://childmind.org/article/angry-kids-dealing-with-explosive-behavior/

Kindness: A Secret Super Power!

Superheroes like SuperCaptainBraveMan have extraordinary abilities! They can jump high, fly amongst birds, and lift the heaviest objects. But what if we told you that a secret Super Power exists in everyone? It's a simple power that all kids have and can use to save any day. Of course, we're talking about the Super Power of Kindness! While being Kind is an innate action, it is important to remind ourselves now and then to lead with Kindness.

Why is Kindness so important?

Fostering Kindness early in life is vital in raising empathetic and compassionate children. "Kindness helps children's mental health, their resilience, as well as their peak performance," educational psychologist and author of Thrivers: The Surprising Reasons Why Some Kids Struggle and Some Kids Shine, Michele Borba states. "Practicing empathy helps a child develop a kindness mindset. They say, 'I see myself as a kind person,' and then they're more likely to keep doing it."

What is the best way to encourage a Kindness Mindset?

Reading books with your child is a fantastic way to promote their Super Power of Kindness. Reading quality stories to children and analyzing character emotions in real-time can help foster empathy cognition. A simple question of, "What do you think this character is feeling right now?" promotes critical thinking and can develop empathetic thoughts that segue into leading with Kindness.

How can I create a kind environment?

The best way to create and maintain a kind environment is by example! Parents and caretakers are often a child's first teachers. Children can learn to lead with Kindness by employing empathy and compassion in daily interactions.

Another way is to validate a child's emotions. Even during a child's frustration or anger, an excellent method to steer back to Kindness is to talk your child through their frustration. "They also learn a key lesson," Borba says. "Compassion in action is one of the best ways to help another and yourself."

Kindness is a Super Power everyone possesses, and it can assemble bonds, leaders, and lessons essential to creating a better world. Children can share Kindness in so many different ways. Equipping them with healthy and positive Kindness Mindsets can help propel their confidence.

Share your Super Power of Kindness at every opportunity!

https://micheleborba.com/books/thrivers/

We found Michele Borba's book, Thrivers: The Surprising Reasons Why Some Kids Struggle and Some Kids Shine, a great resource.

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SuperCaptainBraveMan Books are great stories to kick off conversations about Kindness! Check out our bundles by clicking the link!

Happy New Year!

Hello to the new year!

2023 is here and we’re so excited to share our plans for the coming year.

But first, let’s catch up with what the SuperCaptainBraveMan team did in 2022!

This year, Kyle turned 16. And by the end of the year, he has grown to an amazing 4 feet 4 inches. Which means that sooner rather than later, he’ll be taller than both Nurse Brigette and Nurse Leah!

2022 was a year of collaborations for us.

Partnering with O & P in Motion, 2 murals featuring SuperCaptainBraveMan are now proudly displayed on the outside of their Los Angeles location.

We also had the privilege to collaborate with Marc Laver and his initiative, Jonnie and Friends. This inspiring initiative led the restoration of Universal Universe’s All Access Playground. We are so thankful and honored to be part of such a lovely project.

And we here at SuperCaptainBraveMan want to send out a special thanks to Fenton Primary School for hosting our first live book reading since the pandemic. We love sharing our stories with kids and have missed seeing all of the excited faces live and in person.

New Year, New Merch!

We’ve added more items to our shop! In addition to our T-shirts, you can now order hats, beanies, PJ pants, and “One Brave Kid” shirts. Even our four legged friends can get their SuperCaptainBraveMan on with our doggie kerchiefs featuring Mochi!

Head over to our shop to grab some garb to dress in SuperCaptainBraveMan head to toe!

This year—more than most—reminded us all that we are beyond grateful for each and every one of you. Your support, comments, and likes mean the world to us.

Our continued love for creative stories that showcase inclusivity are at the heart of everything we do. From diabetes to Down Syndrome, SuperCaptainBraveMan strives to teach kids about kindness, empathy, and the power to connect to the superhero inside.

Happy 2023!

Comment below with your New Year’s resolutions and hopes for the coming 12 months.

Stay safe and stay brave, SuperCaptainBraveFAM!

National Superhero Day at Fenton Primary School!

What makes a superhero? Is it the power to fly high? The ability to leap over buildings? Or is it catching the bad guy before dinner time? While we can all agree that these talents are super, we at SuperCaptainBraveMan believe that the one thing that makes a superhero is: Kindness!

On National Superhero Day, April 28th, the SuperCaptainBraveMan Team had the honor of visiting Fenton Primary Center School to read their TK through 2nd graders The Adventures of SuperCaptainBraveMan books! This fantastic event was our first live book reading since the COVID-19 lockdown!

We were so impressed with how well these little superheroes listened and participated in our SuperHero Storytime! All of these super kids wore their best superhero costumes. Thank you to Mrs. Salazar and the incredible staff and teachers at Fenton Primary School for welcoming us so warmly! You guys are the real Super Crew!

Thanks for allowing us to celebrate National Superhero Day with you all! We are so grateful to help kids unlock their superhero power of kindness!

It All Started A Long Time Ago...

For 5 years, SuperCaptainBraveMan has flown from the park to the savannah and beyond on his adventures. Unlocking the Super Power of Kindness from within, he’s helped kids better understand each other and the world around them.

But how did it all start?

How did he get his name?

When did he begin his adventures?

Who helped SuperCaptainBraveMan find the hero inside?

These questions and more will be answered in our newest book!

Just in time for Mitochondrial Disease Awareness Week, we are proud to announce the release of our 5th hardcover book in The Adventures of SuperCaptainBraveMan series!

The Adventures of SuperCaptainBraveMan Book 5: The Hero Inside

Available on September 20, 2021 at the SuperCaptainBraveMan Shop, as well as Amazon.

Join Kyle as he remembers his very first adventure and makes friends that will last a lifetime.

As always, SuperCaptainBraveFam,

Stay safe and Stay Brave.

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May is Asian American and Pacific Islander Heritage Month

Hello, SuperCaptainBraveFAM!

Nurse Leah, here.

Did you know that May is Asian American and Pacific Islander Heritage Month?

Many members of our team are part of the diverse and rich cultures that make up the AAPI community. From author and co-creator Jennifer Norman’s Korean heritage, to the deep Filipino roots myself and illustrator, Victor Lodevico share…

To Kyle, the inspiration for SuperCaptainBraveMan, whose parents gifted him with the magnificent tapestry and interweaving of their Korean and African-American cultures.

We are part of the AAPI Community.

This past year has been difficult for many reasons. Heartbreaking for many more. And yet, there is always hope. I, personally, see this hope in the growing generation of people willing to wear their compassion for others proudly and without fear. Those willing to stand up and bring about change not only for themselves, but for the people around them. Those willing to reach out and share their experiences to foster understanding and empathy.

While this subject is one that is difficult to discuss with kids, we are creators for a book series hoping to begin difficult discussions with children & their parents about differently abled people. As such, we encourage parents, teens, and children to learn more about the experiences of the people in their communities. And since it is Asian American and Pacific Islander Heritage month, why not start with the experiences we have here in the US?

We stand with the AAPI Community.

One of the core beliefs of the SuperCaptainBraveMan series has always been that of inclusiveness and empathy.

Whether differently abled, neurodiverse, or one of the many brilliantly varied cultures that call Earth home, in our hearts, we believe that all anyone wants and deserves is to be treated with respect, kindness, and compassion.

We are part of the Global Community.

To learn more about Asian American and Pacific Islander Heritage month visit

https://asianpacificheritage.gov/

To find out more about Asian American and Pacific Islander heritage, check out the kid’s books listed here:

• 24 Beautiful Kids’ Books that Reflect the Asian American Experience

Read a very personal and semi-autobiographical children’s book about growing up as a first generation Filipino in America in the book

Someone Said Written by Leah Lodevico, Illustrated by Victor Lodevico

Approach the subject of anti-Asian hate with your children with a free download of the book

A Kid’s Book About Anti-Asian Hate Written by Kim Pham

As SuperCaptainBraveMan shows us, although we may look different on the outside, we all share one common super power: Kindness!

So, SuperCaptainBraveFAM,

Stay Safe,

Stay Brave,

And Stay Kind.

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